3/A little story on: Self doubt & decision making
“May life gently guide you through moments of self-doubt, uncertainty, and vulnerability, allowing decisions to unfold in harmony with your true essence. Embrace the journey, for within the intricate dance of self-discovery, even the whispers of doubt and the shadows of guilt can sculpt a masterpiece that resonates authentically with your soul.”
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What are the main sources of my self-doubt?
How does self-doubt manifest in my thoughts and actions?
How do I typically react to mistakes or setbacks?
Reflect on past decisions. What have been the outcomes? How did I feel about them?
What fears are associated with making decisions?
How does the fear of failure impact my decision-making process?
What factors are important to consider when making decisions in my life?
Envision a scenario where you make a decision confidently and achieve a positive outcome.
Describe how it feels to trust yourself and your abilities.
I vividly recall a personal crossroad where I had to choose between a secure yet uninspiring life & job and the uncertain path of pursuing my passions and intuition. The doubts that crept in were like shadows, questioning the rationality of my desires. Was I being impractical? Would I regret not taking the safer route? The pendulum of self-doubt swung back and forth, creating an internal discord that reverberated with uncertainty.
Accompanying this internal struggle was the weight of guilt, born from the fear of disappointing others. Friends and family had certain expectations, and the thought of deviating from that script felt like a breach of trust. The guilt whispered about potential letdowns and the burden of unconventional choices.
Ultimately, I took the leap into the unknown, The journey was far from linear, with doubts lingering and guilt making sporadic appearances. Yet, amid the challenges, I discovered the power of authenticity and the resilience required to align decisions with personal desires.
It took me time, courage to be dislike or unpopular, and heaps of wrong decisions to start to make decisions aligned with my internal being. I must to say that despite any challenge, guilt and mistakes, this was the sweetest gift that I could give to myself.
In life, this experience reflects a universal truth about decision-making-an intricate dance between inner desires, external expectations, and the persistent hum of self-doubt. It's acknowledging the messy reality that decisions aren't always clear-cut, but the pursuit of personal fulfilment, even in the face of uncertainty, can lead to a richer and more authentic life.
Within doubt, there is a light courage emerges, dispelling guilt in the night Choices like petals , the mind debates but amid the chaos inner wisdom resonates.
Navigate with hope, confronting your fears, for in each decision, a chance to grow self-doubt may linger but courage will grow.
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Self doubt
a note on decision making
